The Early Plays

June is PTSD Awareness Month, and 8 years ago Greg and I made a commitment to pray for families where PTSD is present to find more peace, trust, strength, and discipline in their lives.

This year's theme "Hold the Football" was inspired by Greg and it might be the most fun devotional I have had the honor to write to this point. So, here we go y'all!

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” — Psalm 56:3

“You just hold the football, Jen.” My husband jokingly tries to remind me to trust him. I laugh and smile because I am pretty darn good at holding the ball. I even like to make funny faces at him or do the Varsity Blues “Tweeter’s in the in- zone dance.”

I don’t know exactly when his poetic reminder began, but I do know it started during one of those times when I was trying to gently guide or provide my opinion at a time when he had not asked for it. And, I think my first reaction to it was not one of kindness or goodness, but of “Ugh! Well, I never.”

Over the years, I have come to appreciate his reminder to “hold the football” because it reminds me that my husband gets me. He may not always agree with me—no spouse does—but he understands that when he hands me the ball, I’ll most likely be “clutching my pearls and talking to God” which steadies both of us. It definitely helps me breathe in and get quiet, which I need sometimes.

“Hold the football” has become a joke between us, but in truth it’s become one of the most sacred invitations in our marriage and my life:

Trust me.

Stay steady.

I’m here.

We’re okay.

We’re in this together.

Some of my most precious memories have been spent holding the football. Long before I knew anything about trust, teamwork, or calling plays, I was learning something simple and profound, when someone hands you the ball, you hold on.

Heavenly Father, thank You so much for giving me a husband who reminds me of some of the most precious moments in my life. Thank You for someone who makes me laugh and smile, especially in moments where I am anxious and fearful. Thank You for the reminder that we are in this together. I put my trust in You, Lord. Thank You so much. Have a beautiful day! Amen.

Have a beautiful day y'all!

All My Love,

Jen

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